"Caregiving: The Full-Time Job You Didn’t Apply For (But Somehow Got Anyway)"
- eleanor045
- May 26
- 2 min read

Hey y’all,
Can we just take a minute or two to talk about caregiving? Because some of us are out here doing the absolute most; cooking, cleaning, coordinating doctor’s appointments, breaking up arguments, holding space, and somehow still trying to drink water and be a real person. And nobody gave us a manual. We didn’t apply. No interview. Just boom: “Congratulations, you're now the emotional support human.”
Here’s the thing: caregiving, whether it’s for aging parents, a partner, your kids, or even friends who rely real heavy on you, can be one of the most loving roles you’ll ever hold. But it can also be a fast track to burnout if you’re not careful.
You start out helpful… then you get tired… then you get resentful… and before you know it, you're snapping at folks because someone left a cup sitting on the kitchen counter again.
That quiet stress? It builds up. That constant giving? It drains you. That fake smile? It then cracks.
And if you don’t make space to check in with yourself, you’ll end up exhausted, overwhelmed, and wondering why you feel so invisible.
Let me be real with you: caregivers need care too.
You can’t pour from an empty cup. And you dang sure can’t keep everyone else afloat while you’re silently sinking. It’s time to call out that stress by name, process the resentment, and create boundaries that support your peace and your people.
Here’s a gentle nudge (with love): If you’re doing it all, feeling the pressure, and pretending you're fine… you deserve to step back and breathe.
Start with one an honest moment. Give yourself permission to rest. And know this: you are not alone.
I’m rooting for you, the tired, kind-hearted, over-it-but-still-showing-up version of you.
✨ Come on over to The EASE Side. Let’s talk about it.
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